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John James, founder of The Grief Recovery Institute

John W. James

Founder of The Grief Recovery Institute®
Co-Author of The Grief Recovery
Handbook & When Children Grieve

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Russell Friedman, Executive Director of The Grief Recovery Institute

Russell Friedman

Executive Director
Co-Author of The Grief Recovery
Handbook & When Children Grieve


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What can I do other than force myself to cry to make people stop worrying about me? (Published 10-18-11)

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I'm 14 and my mom just died. I overheard my school counselors talking and they are worried about me because I haven't cried. I still miss her, but when I cry, it hurts. It makes my eyes burn bad and makes me feel like throwing up. Whenever I got mad or one of my pets died, mom would tell me not to cry cause I'd make myself sick. I don't think I should cry now either. What can I do other than force myself to cry to make people stop worrying about me?


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