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Thomas P. White III Obituary


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“I just know you were a great little boy, man. Rest your soul, cousin. And I will see you when I meet you : ))) ! Everything is alright Tommy, God got...Read More »
1 of 102 | Posted by: Premiracle - New Castle, DE

“Geesh, tomorrow will be 3 years since the incident. But it still feels like yesterday when they told me my 9 year old cousin passed away ll meet you...Read More »
2 of 102 | Posted by: Premiracle - New Castle, DE

“Thinking about everything, just wishing we could go back to that day, its been 2 years without you I just wish I could've actually met you before you...Read More »
3 of 102 | Posted by: Premiracle - New Catle, DE

“Lil cousin , Your All I'vee Be Thinkingg Bout Monday Will Be Two Yrs , You Left Mee W/ Your Pretty Smilee && Dancee Skilss To Remember , I Just Wish...Read More »
4 of 102 | Posted by: denisee - wilmington, DE

“Lil Tommy im bck again ; iMiss you soo much ... see you on thee other sidee soon , wish you where her to see chrismas baby . you miss down in this...Read More »
5 of 102 | Posted by: Denisee - wilimington, DE

“Damnn Cousin It Been A Year Thaat Youh Havent Been Heree , iMiss Youh Sooo Much . Likee NoBody Understandd How Much iMiss Youh Thomass . Thee Familyy...Read More »
6 of 102 | Posted by: Denisee - wilington, DE

“I miss you lil cousin the family aint the same with out you !- Lil Lenny ”
7 of 102 | Posted by: Lenny - wilmington, DE

“HEY BABY,IT'S ME MOM-MOM, I KNOW POP-POP HAS BEEN OUT TO TELL YOU ABOUT WHAT HAPPEN IN COURT, BUT YOU ALREADY KNOW. I WANT TO SAY R.I.P. BUT I CAN'T...Read More »
8 of 102 | Posted by: Claudette - Wilmington, DE

“Im Back Little Cousin , Im Miss You Tommy . . It's Crazy To KNow Your Not Here , You Was MA Little Cousin Can't Belivee That Your Gone . I Miss...Read More »
9 of 102 | Posted by: Denisee - wilmington, DE

“Little Cousin tommy I Miss You Sittinq in Class Thinkinqq bout You Had To Stop by And Show Lovee I Miss You So Much . . ”
10 of 102 | Posted by: denise - wilington, DE

“I miss you little cousin Tommy . It's almost been a year you been gone . I never thouqht it would be you to leavee at a younq aqee . I miss you . It...Read More »
11 of 102 | Posted by: Denisee - wilmington, DE

“You sure will be missed it has been 5 months but it seems like yesterday that I seen u outside playing with the kids around your way. To you Tom Tom...Read More »
12 of 102 | Posted by: Trina - Wilmington, DE

“RezLilCousinn We Miss Youuh. Lovee Alwayss. -Zaukiaa ”
13 of 102 | Posted by: Zaukiaa - wilm, DE

“Hi Tommy2,Idon,t think you know me but your dad and family as well as mine are family.I can only imagine how you must feel.my heart and prayers go...Read More »
14 of 102 | Posted by: Rosalee Miller - Newcastle, DE

“Hey, Mary Williams and family.I have no excuse for why i have,nt. seen you,ll.I really do keep ya,ll close to my heart.I do pray for all.you know...Read More »
15 of 102 | Posted by: Rosalee Miller - Newcastle, DE

“To GRAND-POP Tommy, wife and family in those times, when signs of sadness try to creep in just look deep within,know that God and Lil Tommy are...Read More »
16 of 102 | Posted by: Rosalee Miller - Newcastle, DE

“To GRAND-POP Tommy, wife and family in those times, when signs of sadness try to creep in just look deep within,know that God and Lil Tommy are...Read More »
17 of 102 | Posted by: Rosalee Miller - Newcastle, DE

“Hi Meeka, Hi Shea I am new to this so do not lol i just want to say you both truely have my condolence .Lil Tommy will always remain in your hearts...Read More »
18 of 102 | Posted by: Rosalee Miller - NEWCASTLE, DE

“I was at the gym tonight walking on the treadmill, and out of all the tvs on, this boys smile caught my eye. I dont pay attention to the news, but...Read More »
19 of 102 | Posted by: Alice Brady - PA

“Tom, I'm so so sorry for your loss. The news of your son broke my heart because I know how special he was to you! You and your family will be in my...Read More »
20 of 102 | Posted by: Leah Howard - Wilmington, DE

“Tommy we will never forget you. ”
21 of 102 | Posted by: Robert and Taysia - DE

“Even though I really didn't know your family I just want to send your family an prayer and love for your lost. May God bless you in your time of need. ”
22 of 102 | Posted by: La'Shonda Comer - wilmington, DE

“Fredrick my haert just broke for you and tour familie.judy seen you and some of your loved ones.I pray that god hols and give you the strengh ,tommy...Read More »
23 of 102 | Posted by: karin rook - neark, DE

“Our condolences go out to the family. May God be with you all. We will ask the almighty that strength be given you throughout this tragedy in your...Read More »
24 of 102 | Posted by: Denise Fields - Newark, DE

“Although i did not know you as well as i couldve i still love you because you (are) my cousin..I have the faintest memory of your but never the less...Read More »
25 of 102 | Posted by: Jennelle - Big Cousin

“Claudine and Tommy. I cried and prayed as soon as I heard about the incident. I did not even know who’s child it was at first, that had been...Read More »
26 of 102 | Posted by: The Brown Family - Wilmington, DE

“Tomorrow and family, I am so sorry for your loss of your Tommy. I wish there were something I could do to ease your pain and sorrow.I will keep you...Read More »
27 of 102 | Posted by: Melinda Sandoval - New Castle, DE

“I know in my heart that little Tommy will go to heaven, because the lord protect our young children. I will keep the the family prayer... ”
28 of 102 | Posted by: Genevieve - Wilmington, DE

“Neak, I would like to say that Tommy's going home service was beautiful. God bless and we will see Tommy again! Stanford family ”
29 of 102 | Posted by: Tashia Stanford - Wilmington, DE

“Dear Tom, My heart goes out to you and your family. I don't know you that well but Alicia,Angie and I felt we needed to be there to support you in...Read More »
30 of 102 | Posted by: Debbie Day - Newark, DE

“Tom & Neak, My deepest sympathy to you and your families. Words just cannot express the hurt but take comfort in the Lord. We will continue to...Read More »
31 of 102 | Posted by: Shavonne White & Family - DE

“Joanne, Barbara, Lisa and Shirley, I just realized whose child " Little Tommy" is. When I heard of the incident my heart just stopped. The pain...Read More »
32 of 102 | Posted by: Terry Casson-Ferguson - DE

“Our prayers are with you & your family! May the peace of God rest upon you! ”
33 of 102 | Posted by: Nathaniel & Phyllis Davis - DE

“May you know that others care,and share in the loss of your little Tommy,i dont know you or lil tommy,but being a mother i feel the pain you going...Read More »
34 of 102 | Posted by: karinrook - newark, DE

“Tomorrow, Thomas and Family, May the peace of god that passes all understanding overtake you in this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are...Read More »
35 of 102 | Posted by: Tasha (Kennedy) Lenoir - DE

“Our deepest thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of bereavement. Remember our God doesn't makes mistakes. Take courage and be strong . God...Read More »
36 of 102 | Posted by: Bishop Dale Smith - New Castle, DE

“Sorry for your loss. May God bless you with his loving hand. Its only him that will get you through these rough times. Although it's extremly hard on...Read More »
37 of 102 | Posted by: Jason Williams - Chicago, IL

“Ms Gerri & Family, Since my family and I moved in the neighborhood, we have watched little Tommy grow. Every morning on the way to school we passed...Read More »
38 of 102 | Posted by: Lavance John, Kaya John (Sturgis) & Family - DE

“Mr,Michael and family With heartfelt sympathy at this difficult time Just know that you and your family are in my prayers.May the sympathy and...Read More »
39 of 102 | Posted by: Beverly Barnes - Wilmington, DE

“Tom, Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of Tommy. I will never forget how thoughtful he was when he shared his pizza with me. My...Read More »
40 of 102 | Posted by: Susan Murray - Sears, DE

“To my sweet loving nephew, We never had the chance to meet. But it's all in god plans we will meet in heaven. God only chooses the most precious...Read More »
41 of 102 | Posted by: Youlanda Locke - Fayetteville, NC

“To The Family of Thomas White III, I extend my sincerest condolences on the passing of your son, Lil Tommy. During this time of bereavement, I urge...Read More »
42 of 102 | Posted by: A Mother feeling your pain - DE

“I am so very sorry for your loss. Please know that your family is in my prayers. I pray that you are strong for eachother, but also know that the...Read More »
43 of 102 | Posted by: Jennifer Luciano - New Castle, DE

“HE is in a better place BE BLESSED ”
44 of 102 | Posted by: kim /mark cale - DE

“My deepest sympathy goes to you and your family. Please know that your family has been and will continue to be in my prayers I give you this one...Read More »
45 of 102 | Posted by: Ashle Latney - Wilmington, DE

“To all the family of Lil Tommy Jr At this time of sorrow, may these truths sustain you. Your loved one will always be as close as a memory,and the...Read More »
46 of 102 | Posted by: Larry Fletcher - Wilmington, DE

“Dear Tom My condolences go out to you and your family at this extremely difficult time. The untimely passing of your son came as a total shock to...Read More »
47 of 102 | Posted by: Arlinda C. Adderley-McAlmont - FL

“I have the pleasure of working with Mr. Marlin White. I hold him in high regards with great respect. He carries himself with such compassion and...Read More »
48 of 102 | Posted by: Molly Perdue - Oxford, PA

“My deepest sympathy to all the family. I do not know you, but I am so sorry for your loss as Thomas was a beautiful boy. It is so tragic that he died...Read More »
49 of 102 | Posted by: Juliet Smith - Wilmington, DE

“MY PRAYERS ARE AND WILL BE WITH YOU ALL. I LOVE YOU AND ALL OF YOUR LOVED ONES THAT HAVE PASSED ON WILL STAND WATCH WITH HIM. SHALOM ”
50 of 102 | Posted by: gennie tolliver - wilmington, DE

“Tom, my condolences goes out to you and your family. If you need someone to talk to, I'm just a phone call away. Keeping your family and my prayers....Read More »
51 of 102 | Posted by: Vernon D Hunter - Wilmington, DE

“To the Malloy and Sutton Families I pray that the Lord gets you through this difficult time and allows you to see a brighter day. Know that that...Read More »
52 of 102 | Posted by: Tiffany Scales - New Castle, DE

“Thank GOD for Thomas he is resting.Thank GOD for Thomas has been blessed. Thank GOD for all who loved him.Praise GOD who love Thomas best. ”
53 of 102 | Posted by: Nora Ervin - WilmingtonT, DE

“you are in my prayers always and may god bless you all. this may be a hard time but keep your faith in god ”
54 of 102 | Posted by: latesha - wilmington, DE

“Neak & Tom, I am so sadden by the loss of your baby boy; and I pray that God gives you the strength that you need to get you through this difficult...Read More »
55 of 102 | Posted by: Eboni LaRue - Wilmington, DE

“Nique and Family, May all your hearts sorrows be comforted by God. Remember his infectious smile,his joyful laughs and giggles. Always...Read More »
56 of 102 | Posted by: Karlis - Wilmington, DE

“Tomorrow and family Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you. ”
57 of 102 | Posted by: Shauna Skelly - Newark, DE

“Tomorrow and family Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you. ”
58 of 102 | Posted by: Shauna Skelly - Newark, DE

“My heart goes out to the entire family of lil Tommy. I had the pleasure of meeting lil Tommy this summer at my sons basketball camp and I immediately...Read More »
59 of 102 | Posted by: Donnae Park - Wilmington, DE

“i will miss you nephew,but i understand that you are safe in the arms of jesus christ and i will c u again.my lord is still in control and he makes...Read More »
60 of 102 | Posted by: great uncle kendall howell - GA

“Shirley, My deepest thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family, during this difficult time. Ms Eursulin Chandler-Mapp ”
61 of 102 | Posted by: Eursulin Chandler-Mapp - DE

“To the White Family, May God keep you doing the time. It is a tough time but know that you both have my prayers and love. To the Mother and Father...Read More »
62 of 102 | Posted by: Denise Rogers - Wilmington, DE

“First to say May God Bless and continue to bless you and your family. throughout the hard time just call on Jesus. And if you ever need anything just...Read More »
63 of 102 | Posted by: Stacey Hollis - Wilmington, DE

“We would like to express our deepest condolences to the family of Little Tommy and our prayers are with you. In times like this God is and always...Read More »
64 of 102 | Posted by: Lenny Williams & Family - DE

“Tommy and family, We are truly sorry for your loss and we are keeping you in our prayers. ”
65 of 102 | Posted by: Ton, Lumpy, & Shayne - Wilmington, DE

“To The White Family, Our families have known each other since elementary school and have remained friends throughout those years, so when we heard...Read More »
66 of 102 | Posted by: The Bishop & Beauford Family - DE

“To The White Family, Words cannot express the sorrowful time that your family is in. Your son, brother, grandson, nephew, and cousin went too...Read More »
67 of 102 | Posted by: Lorraine E. Bishop - Wilmington, DE

“to the white family I will miss seeing thomas face at lunch every day every friday he would give me a hug and say see you on monday ms wright it has...Read More »
68 of 102 | Posted by: eyvette Lewis-wright - wilmington, DE

“Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of Tommy. My Condolences and Prayers goes out to the family. Your in my thoughts during this difficult...Read More »
69 of 102 | Posted by: NICOLE CHANDLER - Wilmington, DE

“This goes, out to my cousin, Tom and, his family and, Tomorrow and her family, Our heartfelt condolenses go out to you, their are no words or prayers...Read More »
70 of 102 | Posted by: Mann & Waleah & Family - DE

“Neek, We are so sorry for your loss and anything you need, please don't hesitate to let me know. Love, Rhodie and Tyler Goodman ”
71 of 102 | Posted by: Rhodie Goodman - Wilmington, DE

“Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of Tommmy. My Condolences and Prayers goes out to the family. Your in my thoughts during this...Read More »
72 of 102 | Posted by: Joyce Vega - Bear, DE

“Tom you and the family are in our prayers and we are here for you ”
73 of 102 | Posted by: Mr & Mrs Greg Savage (Tory) - DE

“to the family i've haven't been in troduced to little tom tom but i know him and his father thru a couple family members that are related to the both...Read More »
74 of 102 | Posted by: mia n miller - wilmington, DE

“My Condolences goes out to the family. I did not know your son, but hearing about it, it was just like he was my son. I pray your strength in the...Read More »
75 of 102 | Posted by: Julie - DE

“remebeming when i use to take you and my brother to the park in the summer time at price's park. ”
76 of 102 | Posted by: monisha lake - wilmigton, DE

“There are not enough words in the English dictionary to express how we all feel. I believe that Tommy was a "Angel" on an assignment. His purpose...Read More »
77 of 102 | Posted by: Dana Moore - Wilmington, DE

“May It Comfort You To Know That Others Care. God Bless each an every family member. ”
78 of 102 | Posted by: Vivian Lea, Sec. Proj. C.H.A.N.C.E. - DE

“May It Comfort You To Know That Others Care. God Bless each an every family member. ”
79 of 102 | Posted by: Vivian Lea, Sec. Proj. C.H.A.N.C.E. - DE

“I'll always remember Tommy. I was always asking him "TOMMY WHITE, WHAT ARE YOU DOING BACK IN THIS OFFICE?" He loved to come in and just talk. May...Read More »
80 of 102 | Posted by: Ms. Cookie - Wilmington, DE

“It is truly amazing to me how many lives Tommy touched in his short 9 years here with us. Just a gentle reminder that God has purpose and destiny for...Read More »
81 of 102 | Posted by: Rachel Scott (Warner Elem.) - DE

“To JoAnn,Tommy, Shirley,Barbara,& Lisa: GOD is to kind to make mistakes. Please know that his arrival & his departure were part of the Master's...Read More »
82 of 102 | Posted by: George Gray Reunion Committee - DE

“TOMORROW MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY GOES OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY DURING THIS DIFFICULT TIME. MAY GOD BLESS YOU. YOU WILL REMAIN IN MY PRAYERS AT ALL...Read More »
83 of 102 | Posted by: NYE RINGGOLD - wilmington, DE

“My condolences to your family our prayers and thoughts are with you in this time of sorrow. I pray that you turn to the word of GOD for your...Read More »
84 of 102 | Posted by: Lawren L. Moore - Wilmington, DE

“My heart and sympathy go out to the family of Tommy White. His vivacious and energetic spirit will always be remembered from his years at Warner...Read More »
85 of 102 | Posted by: Jason Scott - Wilmington, DE

“To the mother and father of Little Tommie White nothing can be said or done to comfort you in your time of sorrow, but my heart goes out to you and...Read More »
86 of 102 | Posted by: Tuwanna Ayers - acquaintence

“Neak & Tom-Tom, We just wanted to express our sorrow and sincere condolences. It is always difficult to lose a loved one, but especially a child....Read More »
87 of 102 | Posted by: Kiana Ballard & Albert Fell - DE

“TOMY I WILL MISS YOUR BIG SMILE...NEEK GOD BLESS U LOVE NET AND NIA ”
88 of 102 | Posted by: NET - CLAYMONT, DE

“Cody is in Tommy class at Lombardy and we are shocked at this tragedy. I am so so sorry for his family. I had the privledge of working with Tommy in...Read More »
89 of 102 | Posted by: vicky and cody bowman - DE

“Neak, I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine the pain. Keep your faith in God. He will guide you thru. We know he's looking down; smiling...Read More »
90 of 102 | Posted by: Lehya Malone (Lee-Lee) - DE

“To The Family of Tommy White Jr, We offer our deepest condolences during this time of grievance. My daughter, Mariah attended Pre-K with Tommy at...Read More »
91 of 102 | Posted by: Danielle & Mariah - New Castle, DE

“Tommy,I love his smile and his upbeat personality especially being the little gentleman he was, remembering when Tiona broke her arm, Tommy took it...Read More »
92 of 102 | Posted by: Tessa, Tiona, Andrea - wilmington, DE

“TOMORROW & FAMILY NO WORDS CAN COMFORD A MOTHER WHEN SHE LOSE HER ANGLE,BUT KNOW IN YUR HEART THAT GOD DONT MAKE NO MISTAKE,LITTLE TOMMY IS LOCKED...Read More »
93 of 102 | Posted by: MARY A. BROWN &FAMILY - wlim, DE

“Tommy, my heart aches for you. This tragedy is beyond belief. Your family will be in my prayers. Please try to take care of yourself during this time...Read More »
94 of 102 | Posted by: Christle Taylor-Smith

“Tommy: Thanks for brightening my day and for allowing me to be a part of your life. Rest peacefully. Mr. Marc ”
95 of 102 | Posted by: Marc Felizzi - Wilmington, DE

“Tommy will truly be missed. I just saw him and his mother at Target and was not surprised to find that he still had that same gorgeous and...Read More »
96 of 102 | Posted by: Monique - DE

“Father in the name of Jesus, Touch this family You know what they need; Father we ask you to help, comfort, strengthen and keep them, Lord we know...Read More »
97 of 102 | Posted by: Minister Darlene Brown - DE

“Joanne, my heart is so heavy and truly words could never explain how I feel, but know that you and your entire family are in my prayers. God never...Read More »
98 of 102 | Posted by: Kathy Jarmon - Newark, DE

“To the family of Tommy White, As the librarian at Warner Elementary school, I cannot tell you how heartbroken I was to learn of Tommy's death....Read More »
99 of 102 | Posted by: Adrienne B. Hopson - Wilmington, DE

“Tommy your smile, dancing and love for life will be remembered always. You and your family is and will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. ...Read More »
100 of 102 | Posted by: Kimberly Cottet - New Castle, DE

“Tommy and Neat, we will keep you in our prayers. Little Tom Tom is in the care of the Most High and he will always be in our hearts. Love you both!...Read More »
101 of 102 | Posted by: Shirley Ruffin - Wilmington, DE

“I have no words that could possibly ease your sorrows. Please know that I am absolutely heartbroken over your loss and am here for you. I love you...Read More »
102 of 102 | Posted by: Aunt Monica Irby - Claymont, DE


Thomas P. White, III, "Tommy", age 9, went home to be with the Lord Saturday, January 9, 2010. Son of Thomas P. White, Jr. (Deneen) and Tomorrow Monroe (Trevor) and brother of Thomier and Taylor White. Great-grandson of Scymeion Frisby; great-great nephew of Lillie Hobson; grandson of Gerri and Bobby Monroe, Joanne White-Scott "Baby", Darrett Scott, Thomas P. and Claudette Bell, Stephanie "Mom Steph" and Dean Sutton. He is also survived by his favorite aunt, Wanda Demby along with other aunts and uncles: Angie, Marilyn, Bobby, Fred, Stephon, Keenan, William, Alvin, Shamika, Tomasha, Dean, Jr. and Danielle, along with a host of other relatives and friends. He was preceded in death by Teresa White, Councilman Joe White, Alvera Bella and Perry Bell. Funeral 9:30 am Saturday, January 16th, at St. Paul UAME Church, 3114 N. Market St. Viewing 8-9:30 am only. Burial, Gracelawn Memorial Park.

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